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18。　Leave　your　friends。　
Stay　away　from　soul　call　friends　who　don't　support　your　goals。　When　you're　in　a　conversion　with　a　pessimists　possibilities　seems　to　have　a　way　of　disappearing　and　a　sense　of　cynicism。　Remember；　cynics　do　not　create。　Everyone　knows　that　enthusiasm　is　contagious。　And　being　in　a　conversation　with　an　optimist　opens　us　up　to　more　and　more　of　life's　possibilities。　

19。　Plan　you　game。　
Design　your　own　life　game　plan。　Let　the　game　respond　to　you　rather　than　the　other　way　around。　Act　on　the　crucial　difference　between　CREATING　verus　RESPONDING。　

20。　Find　your　inner　Einstein。　
The　next　time　you　see　a　picture　of　Albert　Einstein；　realize　that's　actually　you。　Every　human　has　the　capacity　of　genius。　To　experience　Einstein's　creative　level　of　thinking　all　you　have　to　do　is　ment　to　using　your　imagination。　This　is　sometimes　a　difficult　remendation　for　grown　ups　to　follow。　Grown　ups　bee　using　their　imagination　for　only　one　thing；　worrying。　Grown　ups　visualize　worst　case　scenarios　all　day　long。　All　their　energy　for　visualization　is　channeled　into　colorful　pictures　of　what　can　go　wrong。　Worrying　is　a　MISUSE　of　the　imagination。　What　people　don't　prehend　is　that　the　human　imagination　was　designed　for　better　things。　People　who　use　their　imagination　to　create　often　achieve　things　that　worriers　never　dream　of　achieving。　Even　if　the　worriers　have　much　higher　IQ（s）。　Dreaming　is　the　design　stage　of　creating　the　future。　Imagine　yourself　living　a　motivated　life。　

21。　Feel　good　first。　*　
Most　people　think　they'll　feel　good　once　they　reach　some　goal。　They　think　happiness　is　OUT　THERE　somewhere。　The　problem　with　feeling　good　about　yourself　until　you　hit　a　goal　is　that　it　might　never　happen。　By　linking　happiness　to　something　you　don't　have　yet；　you　denying　yourself　the　power　to　create　it　in　the　moment。　Your　happiness　is　your　birth　right。　It　shouldn't　depend　on　you　ACHIEVING　something。　Start　by　claiming　it　and　using　it　to　make　your　journey　fun　all　the　way　and　not　just　at　the　end。　

22。　Run　toward　your　fear。　*　
The　world's　best　kept　secret　is　that　on　the　other　side　of　your　fear　there's　something　safe　and　beneficial　there　waiting　for　you。　If　you　work　through　even　a　small　fear；　you'll　increase　your　confidence　in　your　ability　to　create　your　life。　〃Fear　kill　more　people　than　death。　Death　kills　us　but　once　and　we　usually　don't　even　know　it。　But　fear　kills　us　over　and　over　again。　subtle　at　times　and　brutal　at　other　times。〃　The　rush　we　get　after　running　through　the　waterfall　of　fear　is　the　most　energizing　feeling　in　the　world。　If　you're　ever　in　an　under　motivated　mood；　find　something　you　fear　and　do　it。　And　watch　what　happens。　

23。　Just　be　unexpected。　
Most　people　don't　see　ourselves　as　creative；　but　we　all　are。　The　reason　is　we　associate　being　creative　as　being　〃original。〃　But　that's　not　the　case。　Being　creative　has　nothing　to　do　with　originality；　but　it　has　to　do　with　being　〃unexpected。〃　If　your　willing　accept　that　you　are　creative；　you　can　start　ing　up　with　all　these　different　〃unexpected〃　ways　of　answering　all　the　problems　life　throws　at　you。　

24。　Create　your　relationship。　
〃We　are　each　angels　with　only　one　wing；　so　we　can　only　fly　and　embarrass　each　other。〃　We　can't　create　our　truest　selves　without　creating　relationships　in　the　process。　Relationships　are　everywhere。　In　relationship；　most　of　think　with　our　emotions；　not　our　minds。　Don't　think　with　your　feelings　though。　Think　with　your　mind　and　you'll　be　able　to　create　the　relationships　you　want　in　your　life。　They　just　don't　〃happen〃　to　you。　

25。　Be　where　you　are。　
Most　of　us　don't　ever　focus。　We're　constantly　feel　this　type　of　psychic　chaos　because　we're　always　thinking　about　too　many　things　at　once。　Focus　on　what　you　want　and　it　will　e　to　you　life。　Focus　on　being　a　happy　and　motivated　person　and　that's　who　you　will　be。　FOCUS。　

26。　Act　like　a　hero。　
We　need　heroes　in　our　lives。　They　are　not　a　sign　of　weakness；　they　are　a　source　of　strength。　〃Without　heroes；　we　are　just　plain　people　and　we　don't　know　how　far　we　can　go。〃　Heroes　show　us　what　is　possible　for　a　human　being　is　able　to　acplish；　therefore　are　very　useful　for　anyone　interested　in　self　motivation。　You　don't　have　to　have　just　one　hero；　choose　a　number　for　them。　Put　their　pictures　up。　Bee　an　expert　in　their　lives。　Collect　books　about　them。　Let　your　heroes　lives　inspire　you。　They're　only　people　like　we　are。　What　distinguish　them　from　us　is　their　great　level　of　self　motivation。　To　passively　adore　them　is　an　insult　to　our　potential。　Instead　of　looking　up　to　our　heroes；　it's　much　more　beneficial　to　look　into　them。　

27。　Accept　your　will　power。　*　
Lot　of　people　say　they　don't　have　will　power。　But　if　you　think　you　don't　have　will　power；　your　under　minding　your　own　success。　Everyone　has　will　power。　To　be　listening　to　this　program　you　got　to　have　will　power。　The　first　step　in　developing　your　will　power　is　to　attempt　it's　existence。　The　2nd　step　is　to　know　that　your　will　power　is　like　a　muscle　in　your　arm　is　yours　to　develop。　Your　in　charge　of　making　it　strong　or　let　it　bee　weak。　Will　power　is　not　strengthened　by　random　external　circumstances。　Will　power　is　an　inside　game。　Make　a　promise　to　yourself　to　be　clear　and　truthful　about　your　own　will　power。　It's　always　there。　

28。　Say　〃No〃　to　yourself。　****　
A　lot　of　people　are　afraid　of　the　word　〃discipline〃　but　the　root　of　the　word　〃discipline〃　is　the　word　〃disciple。〃　When　your　self　disciplined；　you　simply　decided　in　the　matter　of　the　word　to　bee　your　own　〃disciple。〃　Once　you　make　that　decision；　your　life's　adventures　bees　more　interesting。　You　see　yourself　as　a　different　person。　You　start　to　gain　your　own　SELF　RESPECT。　〃Self　respect　is　the　fruit　of　discipline。　The　sense　of　dignity　growths　with　the　ability　to　say　'no'　to　oneself。〃　…　Abraham　Hassel。　〃When　we　say　no　to　temptation；　the　power　of　that　'temptation'　passes　into　our　will　power。〃　…　Emerson。　We　should　do　2　things　everyday　that　we　don't　want　to　do。　By　doing　this；　we　bee　more　aware　of　our　will　power。　

29。　Make　new　word　connections。　
If　you　associate　the　word　〃will　power〃　as　harsh　punishment　you'll　weaken　your　resolve　to　build　it。　To　increase　your　resolve；　you　need　to　think　about　〃new　word　connections。〃　i。e。　weight　lifters　think　failure　as　success。　Be　more　aware　of　the　language　you　use　and　guide　that　language　to　more　personal　power。　

30。　Deprogram　yourself。　
If　you　watch/listen　to　news　programs　on　a　regular　basis；　you　belong　to　a　very　hypnotic　cult。　You　need　to　be　de　programmed。　Start　be　altering　how　you　listen　to　the　media。　Program　out　all　the　negative　and　cynical　thoughts　that　you　allow　to　flow　into　your　mind　unchecked　when　you　hear　the　news。　Once　you　bee　better　at　factoring　out　all　the　negative　media；　make　your　own　news。　Be　your　own　breaking　story。　

31。　Open　the　present。　****　
Practice　being　awake　in　the　present　moment。　Make　the　most　awareness　of　this　moment。　Don't　live　the　past　unless　you　like　guilt。　Don't　live　in　the　future　unless　you　like　fear。　Just　stay　focused　on　today。　Watch　what　happens　to　your　motivation。　

32。　Serve　and　grow　rich。　
You　can　motivate　yourself　by　increasing　the　flow　of　money　into　your　life。　Most　people　are　even　embarrassed　to　think　this　way。　They　don't　want　to　think　and　grow　rich　because　they'll　be　though　as　being　greedy。　They　believe　to　make　money；　you　have　to　take　it　away　from　someone　else。　Or　they　don't　want　to　e　across　as　being　obsessed　with　money。　You　know　who　are　the　people　that　are　really　obsessed　with　money？　People　who　think　they　don't　have　enough。　They　obsess　of　money　all　day　long。　It's　in　their　family　discussions；　it's　in　their　minds　at　night；　it　bees　a　destructive　part　of　their　relationships　during　the　day。　〃Our　first　duty　in　life　is　not　to　be　poor〃　…　George　Bernard　Shaw。　The　road　to　not　being　poor　always　travels　through　your　professional　relationships。　The　more　serve　those　relationships；　the　more　productive　you'll　bee　and　the　more　money　you'll　make。　Allow　yourself　to　link　your　financial　well　being　with　your　increase　passion　for　others。　If　I　live　in　poverty；　how　much　love　and　attention　can　I　give　my　children　or　to　my　fellow　humans。　How　much　help　can　I　give　to　others　if　I'm　always　worrying　about　being　in　debt。　

33。　Imitate　'Columbo'　
In　your　professional　life；　always　be　CURIOUS。　When　you　meet　with　someone　think　of　yourself　as　a　detective。　Ask　questions。　By　asking　questions　in　your　relationships；　your　already　creating　the　relationship。　Your　already　self　motivated。　Your　not　waiting　for　the　other　person　to　make　it　happen。　

34。　Give　away　some　power。　****　
Motivate　yourself　by　giving　someone　else　the　ideas　for　self　motivation。　You　can　have　any　experience　you　want　in　life；　simply　by　giving　away　that　experience　to　someone　else。　It's　called　〃Instant　Karma。〃　If　you　want　to　be　motivated；　shift　your　inspiration　to　someone　else。　Point　out　their　strengths。　Offer　encouragement　and　support。　Watch　what　it　does　for　you。　

35。　Talk　to　yourself。　*　****　
Don't　be　nervous　talking　to　yourself。　We　associate　it　with　'insanity'。　But　Plato　said；　〃Thinking　was　the　soul　talking　to　itself。〃　There　is　no　one　better　to　talk　to　then　yourself　when　you　really　want　to　get　things　worked　out。　No　other　person　has　enough　information　about　your　problems。　No　one　knows　your　skills