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and turned me the cold shoulder�察�they would never have been able
to ruin you。 Your wife brought on the coldness between us��
instigated by her mother�察�to whom she wrote two letters a week��a
fact to which you paid no attention。 I recognized my Paul when I
heard that detail。
Within a month I shall be so intimate with your mother´in´law that
I shall hear from her the reasons of the hispano´italiano hatred
which she feels for you��for you�察�one of the best and kindest men
on earth� �Did she hate you before her daughter fell in love with
Felix de Vandenesse�察�that's a question in my mind。 If I had not
taken a fancy to go to the East with Montriveau�察�Ronquerolles�察�and
a few other good fellows of your acquaintance�察�I should have been
in a position to tell you something about that affair�察�which was
beginning just as I left Paris。 I saw the first gleams even then
of your misfortune。 But what gentleman is base enough to open such
a subject unless appealed to�拭�Who shall dare to injure a woman�察�or
break that illusive mirror in which his friend delights in gazing
at the fairy scenes of a happy marriage�拭�Illusions are the riches
of the heart。
Your wife�察�dear friend�察�is�察�I believe I may say�察�in the fullest
application of the word�察�a fashionable woman。 She thinks of
nothing but her social success�察�her dress�察�her pleasures�察�she goes
to opera and theatre and balls�察�she rises late and drives to the
Bois�察�dines out�察�or gives a dinner´party。 Such a life seems to me
for women very much what war is for men�察�the public sees only the
victors�察�it forgets the dead。 Many delicate women perish in this
conflict�察�those who come out of it have iron constitutions��
consequently no heart�察�but good stomachs。 There lies the reason of
the cold insensibility of social life。 Fine souls keep themselves
reserved�察�weak and tender natures succumb�察�the rest are
cobblestones which hold the social organ in its place�察�water´worn
and rounded by the tide�察�but never worn´out。 Your wife has
maintained that life with ease�察�she looks made for it�察�she is
always fresh and beautiful。 To my mind the deduction is plain��
she has never loved you�察�and you have loved her like a madman。
To strike out love from that siliceous nature a man of iron was
needed。 After standing�察�but without enduring�察�the shock of Lady
Dudley�察�Felix was the fitting mate to Natalie。 There is no great
merit in divining that to you she was indifferent。 In love with
her yourself�察�you have been incapable of perceiving the cold
nature of a young woman whom you have fashioned and trained for a
man like Vandenesse。 The coldness of your wife�察�if you perceived
it�察�you set down�察�with the stupid jurisprudence of married people��
to the honor of her reserve and her innocence。 Like all husbands��
you thought you could keep her virtuous in a society where women
whisper from ear to ear that which men are afraid to say。
No�察�your wife has liked the social benefits she derived from
marriage�察�but the private burdens of it she found rather heavy。
Those burdens�察�that tax wasyou� �Seeing nothing of all this�察�you
have gone on digging your abysses ��to use the hackneyed words of
rhetoric�� and covering them with flowers。 You have mildly obeyed
the law which rules the ruck of men�察�from which I desired to
protect you。 Dear fellow� �only one thing was wanting to make you
as dull as the bourgeois deceived by his wife�察�who is all
astonishment or wrath�察�and that is that you should talk to me of
your sacrifices�察�your love for Natalie�察�and chant that psalm��
;Ungrateful would she be if she betrayed me�察�I have done this�察�I
have done that�察�and more will I do�察�I will go to the ends of the
earth�察�to the Indies for her sake。 II; etc。 My dear Paul�察�have
you never lived in Paris�察�have you never had the honor of
belonging by ties of friendship to Henri de Marsay�察�that you
should be so ignorant of the commonest things�察�the primitive
principles that move the feminine mechanism�察�the a´b´c of their
hearts�拭�Then hear me��
Suppose you exterminate yourself�察�suppose you go to Saint´Pelagie
for a woman's debts�察�suppose you kill a score of men�察�desert a
dozen women�察�serve like Laban�察�cross the deserts�察�skirt the
galleys�察�cover yourself with glory�察�cover yourself with shame��
refuse�察�like Nelson�察�to fight a battle until you have kissed the
shoulder of Lady Hamilton�察�dash yourself�察�like Bonaparte�察�upon the
bridge at Arcola�察�go mad like Roland�察�risk your life to dance five
minutes with a womanmy dear fellow�察�what have all those things
to do with LOVE�拭�If love were won by samples such as those mankind
would be too happy。 A spurt of prowess at the moment of desire
would give a man the woman that he wanted。 But love�察�LOVE�察�my good
Paul�察�is a faith like that in the Immaculate conception of the
Holy Virgin�察�it comes�察�or it does not come。 Will the mines of
Potosi�察�or the shedding of our blood�察�or the making of our fame
serve to waken an involuntary�察�an inexplicable sentiment�拭�Young
men like you�察�who expect to be loved as the balance of your
account�察�are nothing else than usurers。 Our legitimate wives owe
us virtue and children�察�but they don't owe us love。
Love�察�my dear Paul�察�is the sense of pleasure given and received��
and the certainty of giving and receiving it�察�love is a desire
incessantly moving and growing�察�incessantly satisfied and
insatiable。 The day when Vandenesse stirred the cord of a desire
in your wife's heart which you had left untouched�察�all your self´
satisfied affection�察�your gifts�察�your deeds�察�your money�察�ceased to
be even memories�察�one emotion of love in your wife's heart has
cast out the treasures of your own passion�察�which are now nothing
better than old iron。 Felix has the virtues and the beauties in
her eyes�察�and the simple moral is that blinded by your own love
you never made her love you。
Your mother´in´law is on the side of the lover against the
husband��secretly or not�察�she may have closed her eyes�察�or she
may have opened them�察�I know not what she has donebut one thing
is certain�察�she is for her daughter�察�and against you。 During the
fifteen years that I have observed society�察�I have never yet seen
a mother who�察�under such circumstances�察�abandons her daughter。
This indulgence seems to be an inheritance transmitted in the
female line。 What man can blame it�拭�Some copyist of the Civil
code�察�perhaps�察�who sees formulas only in the place of feelings。
As for your present position�察�the dissipation into which the life
of a fashionable woman cast you�察�and your own easy nature��
possibly your vanity�察�have opened the way for your wife and her
mother to get rid of you by this ruin so skilfully contrived。 From
all of which you will conclude�察�my good friend�察�that the mission
you entrusted to me�察�and which I would all the more faithfully
fulfil because it amused me�察�is�察�necessarily�察�null and void。 The
evil you wish me to prevent is accomplished�察�consummatum est。;
Forgive me�察�dear friend�察�if I write to you�察�as you say�察�a la de
Marsay on subjects which must seem to you very serious。 Far be it
from me to dance upon the grave of a friend�察�like heirs upon that
of a progenitor。 But you have written to me that you mean to act
the part of a man�察�and I believe you�察�I therefore treat you as a
man of the world�察�and not as a lover。 For you�察�this blow ought to
be like the brand on the shoulder of a galley´slave�察�which flings
him forever into a life of systematic opposition to society。 You
are now freed of one evil�察�marriage possessed you�察�it now behooves
you to turn round and possess marriage。
Paul�察�I am your friend in the fullest acceptation of the word。 If
you had a brain in an iron skull�察�if you had the energy which has
come to you too late�察�I would have proved my friendship by telling
you things that would have made you walk upon humanity as upon a
carpet。 But when I did talk to you guardedly of Parisian
civilization�察�when I told you in the disguise of fiction some of
the actual adventures of my youth�察�you regarded them as mere
romance and would not see their bearing。 When I told you that
history of a lawyer at the galleys branded for forgery�察�who
committed the crime to give his wife�察�adored like yours�察�an income
of thirty thousand francs�察�and whom his wife denounced that she
might be rid of him and free to love another man�察�you exclaimed��
and other fools who were supping with us exclaimed against me。
Well�察�my dear Paul�察�you were that lawyer�察�less the galleys。
Your friends here are not sparing you。 The sister of the two
Vandenesses�察�the Marquise de Listomere and all her set�察�in which��
by the bye�察�that little Rastignac has enrolled himself��the scamp
will make his way��Madame d'Aigle