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ntilian lay upon it�察�even the herb´women at Athens were correct judges of it。 Oratory�察�with all its graces�察�that of enunciation in particular�察�is full as necessary in our government as it ever was in Greece or Rome。 No man can make a fortune or a figure in this country�察�without speaking�察�and speaking well in public。 If you will persuade�察�you must first please�察�and if you will please�察�you must tune your voice to harmony�察�you must articulate every syllable distinctly�察�your emphasis and cadences must be strongly and properly marked�察�and the whole together must be graceful and engaging�此�If you do not speak in that manner�察�you had much better not speak at all。 All the learning you have�察�or ever can have�察�is not worth one groat without it。 It may be a comfort and an amusement to you in your closet�察�but can be of no use to you in the world。 Let me conjure you�察�therefore�察�to make this your only object�察�till you have absolutely conquered it�察�for that is in your power�察�think of nothing else�察�read and speak for nothing else。 Read aloud�察�though alone�察�and read articulately and distinctly�察�as if you were reading in public�察�and on the most important occasion。 Recite pieces of eloquence�察�declaim scenes of tragedies to Mr。 Harte�察�as if he were a numerous audience。 If there is any particular consonant which you have a difficulty in articulating�察�as I think you had with the R�察�utter it millions and millions of times�察�till you have uttered it right。 Never speak quick�察�till you have first learned to speak well。 In short�察�lay aside every book�察�and every thought�察�that does not directly tend to this great object�察�absolutely decisive of your future fortune and figure。
The next thing necessary in your destination�察�is writing correctly�察�elegantly�察�and in a good hand too�察�in which three particulars�察�I am sorry to tell you�察�that you hitherto fail。 Your handwriting is a very bad one�察�and would make a scurvy figure in an office´book of letters�察�or even in a lady's pocket´book。 But that fault is easily cured by care�察�since every man�察�who has the use of his eyes and of his right hand�察�can write whatever hand he pleases。 As to the correctness and elegance of your writing�察�attention to grammar does the one�察�and to the best authors the other。 In your letter to me of the 27th June�察�N。 S。�察�you omitted the date of the place�察�so that I only conjectured from the contents that you were at Rome。
Thus I have�察�with the truth and freedom of the tenderest affection�察�told you all your defects�察�at least all that I know or have heard of。 Thank God�察�they are all very curable�察�they must be cured�察�and I am sure�察�you will cure them。 That once done�察�nothing remains for you to acquire�察�or for me to wish you�察�but the turn�察�the manners�察�the address�察�and the GRACES�察�of the polite world�察�which experience�察�observation�察�and good company�察�will insensibly give you。 Few people at your age have read�察�seen�察�and known�察�so much as you have�察�and consequently few are so near as yourself to what I call perfection�察�by which I only�察�mean being very near as well as the best。 Far�察�therefore�察�from being discouraged by what you still want�察�what you already have should encourage you to attempt�察�and convince you that by attempting you will inevitably obtain it。 The difficulties which you have surmounted were much greater than any you have now to encounter。 Till very lately�察�your way has been only through thorns and briars�察�the few that now remain are mixed with roses。 Pleasure is now the principal remaining part of your education。 It will soften and polish your manners�察�it will make you pursue and at last overtake the GRACES。 Pleasure is necessarily reciprocal�察�no one feels�察�who does not at the same time give it。 To be pleased one must please。 What pleases you in others�察�will in general please them in you。 Paris is indisputably the seat of the GRACES�察�they will even court you�察�if you are not too coy。 Frequent and observe the best companies there�察�and you will soon be naturalized among them�察�you will soon find how particularly attentive they are to the correctness and elegance of their language�察�and to the graces of their enunciation�此�they would even call the understanding of a man in question�察�who should neglect or not know the infinite advantages arising from them。 'Narrer�察�reciter�察�declamer bien'�察�are serious studies among them�察�and well deserve to be so everywhere。 The conversations�察�even among the women�察�frequently turn upon the elegancies and minutest delicacies of the French language。 An 'enjouement'�察�a gallant turn�察�prevails in all their companies�察�to women�察�with whom they neither are�察�nor pretend to be�察�in love�察�but should you ��as may very possibly happen�� fall really in love there with some woman of fashion and sense ��for I do not suppose you capable of falling in love with a strumpet���察�and that your rival�察�without half your parts or knowledge�察�should get the better of you�察�merely by dint of manners�察�'enjouement�察�badinage'�察�etc。�察�how would you regret not having sufficiently attended to those accomplishments which you despised as superficial and trifling�察�but which you would then find of real consequence in the course of the world� �And men�察�as well as women�察�are taken by those external graces。 Shut up your books�察�then�察�now as a business�察�and open them only as a pleasure�察�but let the great book of the world be your serious study�察�read it over and over�察�get it by heart�察�adopt its style�察�and make it your own。
When I cast up your account as it now stands�察�I rejoice to see the balance so much in your favor�察�and that the items per contra are so few�察�and of such a nature�察�that they may be very easily cancelled。 By way of debtor and creditor�察�it stands thus��
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This�察�my dear friend�察�is a very true account�察�and a very encouraging one for you。 A man who owes so little can clear it off in a very little time�察�and�察�if he is a prudent man�察�will�察�whereas a man who�察�by long negligence�察�owes a great deal�察�despairs of ever being able to pay�察�and therefore never looks into his account at all。
When you go to Genoa�察�pray observe carefully all the environs of it�察�and view them with somebody who can tell you all the situations and operations of the Austrian army�察�during that famous siege�察�if it deserves to be called one�察�for in reality the town never was besieged�察�nor had the Austrians any one thing necessary for a siege。 If Marquis Centurioni�察�who was last winter in England�察�should happen to be there�察�go to him with my compliments�察�and he will show you all imaginable civilities。
I could have sent you some letters to Florence�察�but that I knew Mr。 Mann would be of more use to you than all of them。 Pray make him my compliments。 Cultivate your Italian�察�while you are at Florence�察�where it is spoken in its utmost purity�察�but ill pronounced。
Pray save me the seed of some of the best melons you eat�察�and put it up dry in paper。 You need not send it me�察�but Mr。 Harte will bring it in his pocket when he comes over。 I should likewise be glad of some cuttings of the best figs�察�especially la Pica gentile and the Maltese�察�but as this is not the season for them�察�Mr。 Mann will�察�I dare say�察�undertake that commission�察�and send them to me at the proper time by Leghorn。 Adieu。 Endeavor to please others�察�and divert yourself as much as ever you can�察�in 'honnete et galant homme'。
P。 S。 I send you the inclosed to deliver to Lord Rochford�察�upon your arrival at Turin。
LETTER CXVIII。
LONDON�察�August 6�察�O。 S。 1750
MY DEAR FRIEND�此 �Since your letter from Sienna�察�which gave me a very imperfect account both of your illness and your recovery�察�I have not received one word either from you or Mr。 Harte。 I impute this to the carelessness of the post simply�此�and the great distance between us at present exposes our letters to those accidents。 But when you come to Paris�察�from whence the letters arrive here very regularly�察�I shall insist upon you writing to me constantly once a week�察�and that upon the same day�察�for instance�察�every Thursday�察�that I may know by what mail to expect your letter。 I shall also require you to be more minute in your account of yourself than you have hitherto been�察�or than I have required�察�because of the informations which I receive from time to time from Mr。 Harte。 At Paris you will be out of your time�察�and must set up for yourself�察�it is then that I shall be very solicitous to know how you carry on your business。 While Mr。 Harte was your partner�察�the care was his share�察�and the profit yours。 But at Paris�察�if you will have the latter�察�you must take the former along with it。 It will be quite a new world to you�察�very different from the little world that you have hitherto seen�察�and you will have much more to do in it。 You must keep your little accounts constantly every morning�察�if you would not have them run into confusion�察�and swell to a bulk that would frighten you from ever looking into them at all。 You